Lullaby

Black panties
Red lace bra
Waiting up for him seems like an eternity
But only he can lay my body the way he does
Only he can hit all the right spots
The neighbors can hear us through the walls
Lights off
One solitary candle lit
Cinnamon apple filling the room
Time is moving slow
Focusing on this moment
Waiting to hear his keys in the door
Listening in the silence for the sound of his feet coming up the steps
Sleep overcame me

Dreaming of his lips on both of mine
Goosebumps forming all over my body
Feeling his hands grab my ass
He's been waiting all day for this
And so have I
I can only fantasize what he would do to me
Soaking my panties with my waterfalls
Hearing the repeatedly noise of someone getting closer and closer to our bedroom door

Could it be him?

Like a burglar, he comes over to me
Covers my mouth
Pins my arms above my head
And begins tracing all my tattoos with his tongue
Anticipation is overcoming me
I have to gain control of the situation

I have to free myself
Jump over top of him
Ride him so well, his toes curl
He'll scream my name tonight

Black panties
Red lace bra
Tore to pieces

Sheets thrown from the bed
Earrings lost
Cellphones with cracked screens

The perfect night

Waiting up for him seemed like an eternity
Fucking him made it worth the wait
The perfect lullaby

Jelly Bean Test

Some relationships really need to be put to the jelly bean test. So what's the jelly bean test?

It's a scale of logic and not emotion. Many people stay in the relationships for pure love. Not because it makes them happy, that they've gained so much since meeting this person, or that life is of a better quality with them around. Its simple love, comfort, or fear. The love you have for that person keeps you there. The comfort of having the same routine or being with the same predictable person keeps you. Or the fear of the hurt that will come of having to say goodbye to someone you love or once loved. How do you do the jelly bean test?

Take two bowls, one for pros and one for cons, and a bag of jelly beans. Use the last month of your relationship for scale, if you've been together for over a year, use the last six month, 2 years use the last year and so on. With that put 1 jelly bean from every good thing that has happened in your relationship in the pros bowl and the opposite in the cons bowl. If the pros outweigh the cons, then you are just having a rough patch. But if the cons outweigh the pros you move to the next step.

Evaluation

Think, from the outside looking in, would you ever put up with what you already are? Have times gone from good, to bad, to worse? Is it worth it?

Complications with this method:
It can be extremely hard to see the good in anything when you've been in a gray cloud so long and vice versa. Also, never do this method in the heat of the moment. Trust that your judgement is squed. Clear your head, take a break, then proceed.

The jelly bean method is not meant to determine an end to your relationship. It's more of a strike method. Three strikes, you're out! So the first time you use it, you point out all the flaws that need to be addressed. Second time, you see what flaws have gone and which were added. Last time is suffer or call it quits.

In all, relationships should have only a few hills and speed bumps. Not mountains and volcanoes. Remember that.

Peace and love