Dating: Multiple Partners

Dating. Scoping the scene. Fucking the woman/man across the bar in your mind. But in the dating world, it is very possible to date 3 or 4 people at a time. Now, how do you decide who gets the cookies or does everyone have an equal opportunity to reach into the cookie jar?

Is there a unspoken rule

You know those partners will scrutinize you for your rising numbers so do you do it?

or

Do you throw that to the wind and seek to find a partner that cares little about the hands in your cookie jar?

My rule of thumb: Don't do anything that you'll be ashamed to talk about later. 

Chime in, what's the unspoken rule or is there even one?

He plus 3

Let me educate you real quick

Polyamory, commonly confused with polygamy or polygyny, is a married couple with an EQUALLY shared and committed partner or partners that all engage in sexual activities TOGETHER. Simply a group marriage. 

Return of Kings

Polyamory is not gender bias or male dominated. It can be engaged in by the female or male, or both! Anything is up for grabs.

But does it work............

It can. Communication, ground rules, boundaries, and emotions ALL have to be sustained and established. Jealousy is the number one wrecker of polyamory. Polyamory can't succeed without mutual agreement from both parties. 

Could I do it...............

Definitely. As long as the idea is brought to the table on the first date. But if you wait until I fall in love with you, that option is off the table. If you even think that that'll be something you want to explore in the long run, let me know from jump. I'm one of those females that you need to do some research on before you take me out. 

I can dig it!

Could you do it? What would you do if a man approached you with this proposal? What would have to happen to open your mind to the idea? Talk to me.